The Coaching Room | Jill Rhodes Harvey Relationship Coach
WELCOME, I'M JILL

HOW CAN I HELP YOU?
Whether you are divorced, widowed or single, whatever your situation, you are my FOCUS. I provide warm, confidential relationship coaching for men and women 50plus.
Think about the following ...
- Are you in need of an empathic non-judgemental listening ear?
- Are you feeling overwhelmed by your situation or relationship?
- Are you feeling alone unable to share your feelings?
- Are you divorced - unexpected or chosen
- Are you widowed - sudden or after long term care
- Are you single - never achieving the relationship you desire
Have you experienced any of the following? - Repeating dating patterns leading to the same result
- Relationships that always end at the same point
- Connecting and emotional intimacy challenges
- Commitment avoidance and lack of trust
- Self sabotaging relationships to protect yourself
- Attracting, selecting the wrong partners
If any of this sounds familiar, I can help....
There are times in life, when we want, need or desire a new direction, more clarity or just some balance in what seems like a rollercoaster of feelings. I will help you gain the skills, knowledge and confidence to ultimately help you create deeper more meaningful relationships..

ARE YOU DIVORCED OR WIDOWED?
If you are, you are not alone, many men and women between 50-60 divorce or become widowed. Becoming divorced or losing a partner or spouse, either suddenly or after long term care can be truamatic and life changing, leaving a void in your life that can feel overwhelming. I understand and offer a warm and safe place for you to share your feelings with confidence..
What to expect


PERSONALISED COACHING

I am not the stereotypical relationship coach. I offer a bespoke and personal approach, designed specifically around you. My coaching is not a one size fits-all template, as everyone is unique, men and women are different, from backgrounds to how relationship issues are faced and processed. You are assured of an entirely custom tailored approach to you and your situation.
NOT ALL RELATIONSHIP ISSUES STEM FROM BEING MARRIED, DIVORCED OR WIDOWED
It's easy to forget, single people experience relationship issues too, and especially women over 50, who perhaps have been career focused for many years, attracting or selecting the wrong partners, of course this can apply to men too, but, whatever your particular situation, divorced, widowed or single, my aim is to help you achieve a more balanced and positive path ahead .
WHEN ANY RELATIONSHIP ENCOUNTERS DIFFICULTIES OR ENDS
It thows us into turmoil, whether it be a family member, partner or spouse, it can be earth shattering, effecting both physical and emotional well-being. I know, as I too have been there, albeit many years ago, I understand, and don't forget how it feels, the impact it has on your health, confidence and general malaise. It is this that set me on my own path twenty years ago to help others, who, for whatever reason find themselves in a world they never thought they would be part of.
ARE YOU SUCCESSFUL BUT FIND YOURSELF STILL SINGLE ?
If this is you, perhaps you seek some new perspectives that will question familiar dating and relationship patterns, challenge and unlock repeated patterns, selecting or attracting the wrong partners, to discovering your own relationship emotional intimacy style. I’m here to listen and help you arrive at a place that is right for you.



GETTING STARTED

THE PROCESS
* FREE 30 minute initial consultation.
The initial consultation is two-way, allowing me to understand a little of the issues you feel are affecting your relationships, what you would hope to gain by coaching and for you to decide if I would be the right person for you.
GOING AHEAD
If you decide to go ahead and book a coaching session(s) after our initial chat, you can expect warm approach, but also some in-depth and sometimes challenging questions to help you move past your "set" thought patterns/actions that you have always used as the default position. In doing so, it will help you to discover more about yourself and techniques to help you move forward.
COACHING IS NOT A MAGIC BULLET
No one can change set patterns or thoughts overningh, but it can arm you with new skills and a deeper knowledge of what, where or why you may be experiencing what you are. The focus will be YOU and what you would like to achieve, but in doing so, we will need to cover your past, family history, sibling, peer relationships and dating relationship history.

WHAT CLIENTS HAVE SAID

Laura S Surrey
Thank you for all your guidance after my divorce. It seemed daunting at first, but sixteen months later I am starting to think about dating again. Life once more has purpose and could get a lot more interesting. Not sure if I will meet that special person, either way, thank you for all your hard work and support.
Laura, Surrey

Christina, London
Without you, I may still be single and hoping to meet the right man, and as you say, select wisely. The red flags I've ignored before or didn't want to see, I now understand boundaries and what I should and shouldn't compromise on. I only hope anyone who finds themselves wrapped up in their career, as I was, will take the steps to change their life. Thank you.
Christina, London

Ingrid, Switzerland
Thank you for all your help over this last year as being widowed so suddenly left me utterly devastated. With your open and warm approach, I was able to share my grief and eventually found a light at the end of the tunnel to at least think about a future and possibly at some stage another relationship.
Ingrid, Switzerland

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